Man planning to propose to his doctor girlfriend but she might be cheating on him

This is a reader-contributed story.

“My girlfriend Amy is a Doctor from JB. We met each other on Tinder and have been in a relationship for about 18 months.

We never argued…I don’t have time to spend with her or bring her on a trip. She is very understanding about my job. I sponsored her trips to Bangkok and Bali. I buy her a watch and present each time I meet her.

I’m going to propose to her on this coming Valentine’s Day. I booked a 5 stars hotel room and ordered a bunch of roses together with an engagement ring. I’m thinking she is marriageable age and it’s time to settle down with her because both of us are not young anymore.

Last week, I received a message from a man called Lim. He told me that my girlfriend Amy was his girlfriend and my heart skipped a beat. My hand started shaking and I lost control over my body.

In the message, he threatened that if I keep in touch with her or if he see my car in JB, he will attack me.

Also, he sent me a photo of another man called Derrick who is also in a relationship with her.

I am really shocked. How come she could date 3 men at the same time?

I put in my best for her and I am faithful towards her. How could she cheat on me like that? If she need more sex, just go one night stand. Why did she waste my time and give me false hope?

Till now, I also don’t know how to accept this. I gave her chances to let her explain but she denied it and said it was a joke from someone else. She asked me to believe her.

I really don’t know what to do. I’m not even sure who is the third party or maybe I’m the first one.

Should I believe her and give her the engagement ring or just let her go?”

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